“For mediocre lovers, it is easier to spurt and shimmy away sexual energy than it is to open their internal knots, which would allow their energy to circulate in a much more profound and blissful depth. Loosening… knots releases the fear stored within them. Mediocre lovers are afraid of letting go… Beyond sheer enjoyment, sexual occasions of 45 minutes or more are often necessary for opening the body and heart to the fullest potential of human love and intimate communion.”

— David Deida in his book “The Enlightened Sex Manual”. Our next VDay gift suggestion. More here. Because marathon fucking is where it’s at.

February 10, 2010, 2:15am