Modigliani (F/lthyGorgeousTh/ngs)
June 15, 2009, 11:42pm
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Don’t Analyze Your Woman
The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love - the same love that is motivating your questioning - immediately and unmistakably. Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her, tell her how much you love her, smile, hum her favorite song and dance with her, and chances are, her emotional problem will evaporate. She may still have some situation to deal with, and you may be able to help her with that, but the emotional aspect will be converted to love.- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man (F/lthyGorgeousTh/ngs)
It is a very rare occasion when your analysis of her mood relieves her of it. Most often, your analysis and attempts to fix her will just piss her off more. Ask her if she would rather you gave her love or analyzed her when she is upset. It’s so easy to give her love; it’s what both of you really want anyway. But as a man you are more likely to try to fix her. That’s exactly not what she wants, and exactly what will make the situation worse, most of the time.
June 15, 2009, 11:40pm
Achille Devéria (c.1850)
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June 14, 2009, 8:21pm
Peter Hujar, Bruce de Sainte Croix (1978), gelatin silver print
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June 13, 2009, 12:46pm
By the Mofo.
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June 12, 2009, 11:30am
“Everybody Daylight” by Brightblack Morning Light, with footage from the 1968 film Weg zum Nachbarn.
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June 10, 2009, 8:01pm
Enea Vico after Parmigianino, Mars and Venus (1534). A censored print, from this week’s Erotica Curiosa.
June 09, 2009, 11:37am
“I know it can be hard to imagine choosing to have a sexual experience without orgasm. But I bet most people do at some point. Have you ever had sex that was so intense that you forgot to come? Or couldn‘t come? Didn’t want it to end, so you stopped yourself from coming? Were too tired from your glorious exertions, too distracted by your partner, or too contented to bother?”
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Calico
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June 08, 2009, 10:45pm
Carnal Nation Reviews Club OhMiBod
June 07, 2009, 10:02pm
Auguste Rodin
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June 07, 2009, 5:22pm