“Obsession” is written in stylized literary prose that owes something to Pauline Réage’s “Story of O,” and is set in a world that’s partly fantastical. It’s erotica, not porn. But it nevertheless uses vocabulary and describes activities of a sort that readers of The New York Times are usually shielded from. There are scenes involving dildos, whips, silken cords and golden nipple clamps, not to...

The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love - the same love that is motivating your questioning - immediately and unmistakably. Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her,  tell her...

– Calico (F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs)

Carla Bruni: Quelqu’un m’a dit Says Carla: “I am a tamer (of men), a cat, an Italian - monogamy bores me terribly. I am faithful…to myself! I am monogamous from time to time but I prefer polygamy and polyandry.”  (F/lthyGorgeousTh/ngs)